12.10.2007

Deep Fried Frenz

What are friends for, if not to use?

Do we not fill each other's voids?

Do we not come to each other to calm our own insecurities?

Do we not ask for advice when we can't come to our own conclusions?

Do we not need each other most after breakups, deaths, fallouts?

What really defines a friendship? A healthy one? An unhealthy one? Does the amount of love between two people change the foundation of the friendship? Or does it just allow you to make excuses for the other?

Can you end a friendship over a disagreement of their actions outside of your world, regardless of how good of a friend they are? Or should you endure something you disagree with, because that does not affect how good that person is to you? For example: Relationship choices, drugs, career?

In that same breath, if you endure something that is against your morals in order to save a friendship.. is that a reflection of a good heart? or a needy one?

Are you friends with them because THEY need you? Or because YOU need them? Which is worse?

What is a good friend to you?